5 Truths About Being the Only Single Person You Know
Let's be real. Dating in the 21st century is one of the most daunting tasks known to women. So many people are unclear about their intentions or don't want to commit long-term, and that only scratches the surface of what may arise.
But all of this might not bother you until you're the only person in your friend group who is still single. Everyone else is too busy hanging out with their partners and going on double dates while you're left to face the world by yourself. It can be upsetting and isolating, but you're never alone. Us writing this article is proof!
Below, discover five truths you should know about flying solo because it's not as bad as you think.
1. You're not Unloveable
When everyone else is in a relationship, you might wonder, "Is something wrong with me? Am I the unloveable one?" The answer is no, no, no! First, your worth is not determined by someone else's validation. Tying your esteem to another person is a slippery slope to many other issues, like depression and anxiety. More than likely, you're surrounded by more love than you think from your friends, family, pets and more.
2. You have the Self-Confidence to Not Settle
People underestimate the high self-esteem it takes to be single. Society judges and pities others for not having a partner because of a fear of loneliness. That is what leads people to enter relationships that aren't even fulfilling. Ultimately, that leads to more fights, cheating and unhappiness, which is worse than being single, if you ask us.
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3. You're Not Running Out of Time
It all ties back to society! We've been told our whole lives that marriage is something we should all experience, preferably, for women, by the time we turn 30. But really, there is no timeline. You can find love on your terms with someone that fits your values. It doesn't matter if you are 16 or 45. But getting into a relationship simply because you're afraid of getting older and being single, again, leads to those pitfalls we mentioned in No. 2.
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4. You Know What You Want From a Relationship
You're probably single because you know what you want in a partner, and you're not willing to budge. If you know someone's goals and interests don't align with yours, you won't waste your time.
Here at Sweety High, we believe that you shouldn't shift your standards to get a significant other. When you lower your guard, you might grow upset and disappointed because you were holding out on them changing. Or, you'll constantly dream about a person who would have those qualities. Again, it leads to a toxic cycle—save yourself the time and energy for someone who you can mutually respect.
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5. Your Soulmate Is Out There
Just because you haven't found your fish in the sea doesn't mean it won't ever happen. There are eight billion people in the world, and you haven't met everyone. As long as you keep yourself open to new experiences and friendships, you never know when the right person will come and sweep you off your feet.
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